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Spiritual Story Video - Life is Like a Cup of Coffee

Posted on Feb 7th, 2009 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
I tried to post this as an embedded video, but Gaia isn't showing it correctly :(  So anyway, here's the link to the YouTube video:

Life Is Like A Cup Of Coffee

I hope you enjoy! :)
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Like A Prayer

Posted on Feb 2nd, 2009 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
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I just received a newsletter from Max Ryan, and this passage about prayer I really wanted to share. To be honest, I haven't really prayed in decades... the last time I prayed with any conviction and consistency, I was 4.  I wanted siamese twin sisters :)

(everybody I know can agree that sometimes it's a good thing we don't always get what we pray for!)

Anyway, perhaps Max has inspired me to pray once again... enjoy!

-Chris
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When is the last time you prayed?  Or have you ever prayed? 

In many traditions it is said that Prayer is the medium of miracles and I believe that to be true. What is meant by that is that the act of prayer brings us to out of the
realm of lower ego based energies to the higher realms of infinite possibilities where what your mind believed impossible is suddenly possible and who couldn't use a little miracle...or two...?  

There are many of us who don't tend to pray for a couple of reasons; first that we don't have a specific prayer memorized, so we don't pray and secondly that we equate prayer with a specific religious practice of which we are not a member.

Well, I am here to tell you that Prayer can be done a million and one ways and doesn't necessarily have to have any religious component.  Think of prayer as your inner dialogue with the Universe and it's endless and bountiful energy. The Universe is responding to your intention and your vibration and not necessarily your words. 

So, for instance if when you are walking in the park and you feel close to nature and to yourself, share that with the Universe with a prayer of thanks. Or, if you are stuck in traffic, late for an important appointment and just plain pissed, be honest with the Universe by saying "I'm pissed (or something that conveys that vibration LOL!) and then pray for patience or pray to move all the traffic!

But, I have to say my personal favorite is to just pray all the time.... I often catch myself saying "Dear God...Dear God...Dear God..."  I don't know why I do that, but I think it's because I know when I stay in touch with the Universal energies that are swirling above, below, inside, outside and around me, life is somehow easier and in that ease comes miracles...

Sign up for the Beauty (inner & outer) newsletter at Max Ryan's Website
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What was the last blessing in disguise you received?

Posted on Jan 28th, 2009 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 28, 2009:

Actually it happened to me just this week - my website broke!  And it broke just when I was getting ready to update the site with new stories and send out my newsletter! 

I actually ended up sharing my story in the newsletter... so rather than re-write everything again, here's a link to my newsletter archive:

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If you had to pick another religion to practice, what would it be

Posted on Jan 13th, 2009 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 12, 2009:

At present time, I don't follow a specific religion. I was raised Catholic and went to church each week, and I was confirmed in my teens.  However, it was always because my parents made me do it.

As I got older, I began to see some of the flaws with religion.  Specifically, that most religions I've encountered have a basic body of knowledge that they require followers to acknowledge as "Truth."  The reason I see this as flawed is because it doesn't give each individual an opportunity to discover what Truth means for them as individuals. 

It is roughly equivalent to always slapping a kid's hand when they try to steal cookies from the cookie jar and saying "Bad boy!"  But what happens when the parents go out?  The old adage rings true, "While the cat's away, the mouse will play."  The child will go and dig into the cookie jar and take a cookie (if they're not thinking ahead about thins such as leaving trails or their parents counting cookies).

However, if that child is raised in an environment where they are allowed to discover, perhaps, the woes of eating too many cookies at once... or they are on such a healthy diet that even eating a few cookies adversely affects them, then that child will learn from natural consequence.  The result is that no matter who is looking, or not, the child will act in accordance with the Truth they have discovered through their experience.

Although that's an overly simplistic example, and probably has a few logic holes in it, the purpose of it is still pretty solid - to demonstrate that when we adopt Truths from others, rather than discovering our own Truth, we are disempowering ourselves and ultimately not taking ownership of our experience.

That's some insight into why I don't have a current religion.  I'm not opposed to religion, though it may sound that way. I feel it's a very helpful tool in a person's spiritual development, and when approached with an open mind, religion can be another gateway for people to discover the Truth... but only so long as they are not adopting the beliefs of the religion as Truth, and instead using the religions beliefs as a guide and opportunity to explore their own individual Truths.

What religion would I choose, if I had to pick one?  I don't know if one would truly call "Unitarian Universalist" and "Unity" religions... but to be fair I haven't looked deeply into them either.  I have recently been learning about Sufism and am enjoying it very much.  It doesn't appear to be as dogmatic as other religions, but that's just my understanding on the surface.  I may be wrong abuot that as well.

However, the fact that it focuses much on learning how to live in the world... to truly be an active participant in life, is something I like. I like the fact that it doesn't try to dictate a lot of what people "should" do... at least so long as they are acting in accordance with the basic tenets of Sufism and Islam - tenets which basically boil down to "Be compassionate and truthful."  (yes, I'm vastly oversimplifying for sake of trying to keep this blog post below the length of a novel).

One person I heard recently quoted that "any time we mistake a belief as Truth, then we are being religious."  In that sense, I understand.  When we have to believe something, it means we don't actually know.  That's fine to have beliefs, and they're often helpful, but only so far as we don't take them too seriously - that we don't assume they are Truth.

Oh, I could go on... it's actually difficult to stop typing. But I shall stop here for now - perhaps more on another time, or in response to any comments :)
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When do you take time to reflect on your day?

Posted on Jan 9th, 2009 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
This is in Response to the Questions and Reflections for January 09, 2009:

I don't have a specific set-aside time each day that I do this, nor do I specifically allocate time (say 10 minutes) each day for reflection.

Instead, every moment of every day is an opportunity for reflection. Sometimes I am consciously aware of this, and sometimes the moment passes me by without reflection.  Still, whenever I notice something interesting or curious about my experience, I pause and reflect.

I seem to reflect, inquire, and be curious more often than I was in my past. Things are changing, and it's kinda nice...
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Don't Look At Strangers. Don't Talk to Strangers.

Posted on Jan 8th, 2009 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
At Portland Airport, there's a long corridor that goes from the terminal underground to long term parking. It's a long corridor, and anybody in it is obviously either coming home or leaving.  And because it's a long corridor, and people typically don't talk to strangers or look at them, it can be an uncomfortable walk.

You can see the other person from nearly 100 yards away trying to not look at you.  Usually people stare at the ground, look at their cell phone, or try any other myriad of ways to avoid making any sort of uncomfortable contact with people walking in the corridor.

I've decided to change my tune.

Today when I was walking down the corridor to get ready for my flight, I saw a usual suspect a pretty good distance away. I immediately looked at him with a warm smile and said,

"Welcome home"

After that, we had about a 10 second conversation as we were continuing to walk towards each other, and then past each other.  There was no discomfort, and I could tell he appreciated the gesture.  I did too.  It's nice to be able to connect with total strangers in a kind, common way... even if it is for just a moment.

So next time you find yourself in a social situation where the "correct" action is silence and ignoring the other person (an elevator is a great example), consider taking the courageous action - consider making an attempt to connect with the other person not as a stranger, but rather, as a fellow human... perhaps even a long-lost friend.

After all, in a manner of speaking we're all long-lost friends just looking to find one another again...
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Are You Normal Or Insane?

Posted on Jan 7th, 2009 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
I just got today's "Warrior of the Light" column from Paulo Coelho. It was rather fascinating because he polled his friends, colleagues, etc about what "Normal" was. Here's a few "Normal" (i.e. insane) highlights from the list:

  • #2) Making rules for war (Geneva Convention)
  • #14) Waking up with a hysterical alarm clock at the bedside
  • #26) When you enter an elevator, looking straight at the door and pretending you are the only person inside, however crowded it may be.
  • #40) Avoiding depression with massive daily doses of television programs.

And my personal favorite of his... and the inspiration for sharing this list here:

#47) Thinking that your religion is the sole proprietor of the absolute truth, the most important, the best, and that the other human beings in this immense planet who believe in any other manifestation of God are condemned to the fires of hell.

(Did I mention that Paulo Coelho strongly identifies with his Christian religious background... yet still finds the wisdom not to judge others who don't share the same?)

Anyway, glad I don't wake up with an alarm clock on most days, nor watch TV (we don't have cable). But I'm very tempted next time I'm in an elevator to just start talking no matter how crowded it is.

This reminds me of a funny skit I saw (maybe Saturday Night Life?) where a man walks into a crowded elevator and *doesn't* turn around... instead he just faces everybody and stays that way until getting off the elevator. That was pretty funny :)
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Star Light, Star Bright - A Personal Story

Posted on Jan 4th, 2009 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
I didn't realize it, but as early as 3 years old I was already spiritually aware. Well, sort of. You see, I don't remember being psychic in any way, and I certainly don't remember reading books like The Power of Now or watching spiritual movies like Peaceful Warrior. I didn't feel some grand connection to the oneness of the Universe, and I certainly wasn't aware of any out of body experiences.

One thing I did grasp though, was the power of the mind and spirit. I remember a recurring nightmare in which a bat would chase and scare the living daylights out of me! Every night. Over, and over, and over. When I told my Catholic mother of this, she told me I had the power to control my dreams. The ironic thing is, even after having all these terrifying dreams, I actually believed her.

Mind you, this was a bat with a wingspan as wide as my body was tall, and its body at least three times larger. It was especially frightening to a child my age. The dream came again, and again the bat chased me just like before... only this time I remembered my mother's words of wisdom. Before I knew it, I was riding this bat the same way that Atreyu from "The Neverending Story" rides Falcor. In that moment, I felt true freedom. A freedom that was revealed to me at the age of three through an introductory understanding of the power of intention.

I never had that nightmare again.

I did, however, gain the realization that I could influence my world. This came to be much clearer to me the following year when I turned 4. You see, my family would go to church every week. I didn't understand, and I certainly didn't like being there, but I had to go. I grasped the idea that there was a "God" who listened to our prayers and answered them, but frankly he just didn't interest me all that much.

What did interest me though, was another entity from above: the Universe. Nightly, I would gaze up in awe and childlike wonder at the constellations, the Moon, the Milky Way, and the shooting stars of the Perseids. I didn't realize it at the time, but I was looking at God through a child's eyes. I also didn't realize that would be my first experience in the true power of intention.

Every night I would pray. Not to God, as my two older brothers and I had been taught in church and by my mother, but rather, I would pray to the stars. I have no idea why I asked for what I did, but I was passionate and diligent about it. It didn't matter if we were at home or in the car, I would find the stars and pray for Siamese twin sisters.

Yes, you heard me right: Siamese.

Of course, at that age I didn't realize what Siamese meant. I just thought I was asking for two sisters at the same time. I can only imagine the combination of adoration and heartbreak my parents felt as they had already decided not to have any more children, yet watched their 4 year old son so intent on such a beautiful dream.

Months passed with no answer. It is said that prayer is talking to God, and meditation is listening for the answer, but at that age I knew none of that. For a young child, that could be quite distressing to ask over and over and receive no response. Not for me though, and for months and months I continued to pray to the stars for my Siamese twin sisters. I had an unending source of confidence and faith that the stars were listening.

And they were.

After several months, my parents informed me that I would have a Gemini sister to share the world with. As I look back on my life, I realize that at 4 years old I was taught the powerful lesson of intention and that the Universe is always listening, even if we can't hear its response. To this day, when I look up at the stars at night, I whisper inside myself:

Star light, star bright. First star I see tonight. Wish I may. Wish I might. Have this wish I wish tonight...
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But Spiritual People Don't Play Poker!

Posted on Nov 21st, 2008 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
It's kinda silly that I have to cite my own articles (since I originally submitted this to EZine articles), but I wanted to share this story here...

But Spiritual People Don't Play Poker!  A Lesson in Joy and Presence
By Chris Cade

Several months ago, my wife Laura and I were with Adyashanti and somebody asked him what he does for enjoyment. His answer: "Sometimes I like to ride my motorcycle or play poker with my friends."

In that moment, I felt a lot less alone. For several years now, I've played poker with the same group on Monday nights. Over those years I've grown in many ways, but that hasn't changed that I really enjoy the dynamics of a good poker game. What has changed is the place I come from while playing poker.

I get a lot less caught up in the ego aspects of the game, and instead tend to be more present and aware of just enjoying the moment. Enjoying the way the money shifts around to different people on the table, enjoying the flow of energy involved with that and observing how people act and react in different situations that arise during the game. What I enjoy most though, is that every now and then there arises a 'perfect' moment that is only possible by my non-attachment to winning.

Why play poker if not to win?

My ideal poker game is one in which there are a lot of highs and lows, a lot of wins and losses, and in the end everybody walks away with close to what they started with. It doesn't always work out that way... sometimes I win a couple hundred dollars or lose a couple hundred dollars, most of the time it's closer to about +/- $20. Back to the point, though.

A few months ago I was playing with a relatively new group and with only a $20 initial buyin, and after a few hours of play I was already profiting about $250. I'm not entirely sure what happened, but somehow I merged with the moment... in an indescribable unity where I was not separate from anybody else or anything else. In that moment, I made a $150 bet that put two of the other players to the test... to make a very hard decision.

The thing is, I wasn't thinking during any of this. I was playing mindlessly... and though that might explain why I lost the $150, what it also helps bring to light is that it is possible to be engaged in mind-based activities yet without using the mind. Playing poker, for me, has become a lot more intuitive-based. I think a lot less about the plays I make, and sometimes I don't even think at all.

It is in this space of non-thinking... this complete open space combined with a nothingness... that joy arises from. Had I been attached to winning that hand (there was about $400-$500 in the pot including other players), I would have been quite upset about losing. However, I wasn't upset. In fact, I felt a great amount of gratitude that I could witness somebody else derive such pleasure from winning that hand.

It wasn't until I was driving home after the game that I realized I had been experiencing joy in that moment. Generally speaking, most people are unaware when they are truly 'in the moment' because it is a combination of that nothingness and complete spaciousness without thought (so without thinking, they don't 'know' they're in the moment). I certainly didn't realize it until I was driving home later that night and I reflected on the evening.

People often have a misconception that joy and happiness are the same thing, yet in that experience I was clearly shown this is not the case. Joy is a state of being that is underneath any emotional experience we can have, and therefore it is possible to be both joyous and happy, as well as joyous and deeply sorrowful. Joy does not exclude any emotion, but rather, it includes all of them without attachment nor exception.

Chris Cade empowers people to discover their own personal truths through reading and writing spiritual stories and parables. For more information, visit Spiritual Short Stories and Spiritual Growth Writing

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The Joys of Discovering How to Write Your Own Spiritual Stories

Posted on Nov 20th, 2008 by Chris Cade : Spiritual Story Lover Chris Cade
For centuries, spiritual sages have told short stories to enlighten and inspire others.  Counting the stories and parables that Jesus and the Buddhas have told might take a lifetime, and it would probably take several lifetimes to fully integrate the wisdom from those stories into ourselves.

You've probably read a spiritual story that was both entertaining and insightful.  Maybe it was the classic Christian story, "Footsteps" or perhaps Aesop's fable "The Tortoise and the Hare." When we discover stories that connect with us deeply, we remember them and their lessons our entire lives.

The reason people continue to tell, and love, short stories is because stories are entertaining and concise ways to communicate incredibly powerful ideas.  Plato understood this in 388 BC when he asked the City Fathers to ban storytellers, and today's spiritual leaders like Dan Millman, Eckhart Tolle, and Paulo Coelho, also understand this power and continue the storytelling tradition.

Stories are powerful because they mirror the way we naturally think. We think in narrative structures - whether it's talking about our day, connecting with a friend, or reflecting on our experiences - and because of this, stories imprint themselves into our brains naturally. 

Stories are how we understand best, so when you write down your stories you directly access the deepest parts of your psyche and soul.  You can reach inside and pull out the subconscious imprints that are most valuable to your spiritual growth, and then put them on paper for your conscious mind to see and work with.  Similar to Emotional Freedom Techniques (EFT), this process of bringing your subconscious into the conscious can result in rapid and significant personal transformation.

Unfortunately, most people never try writing stories because they don't think they're good enough.  It's a classic paradox because without trying they'll never feel good enough.   Having fears about writing is normal for most authors, and it is rare to come across a writer without them. My own fears were only overcome by actually writing... by "being" a writer.

The thing about writing is, none of us are writers until we are writing. "Who" and "what" we are changes from moment to moment. We may identify with what we do in life; for example we may call ourselves computer engineers, energy healers, writers, or the many other labels we give ourselves based on what we do.

But we can only associate with that label while we are doing the associated action!

Think about that for a moment. While driving a car, are you a writer? No. You’re a driver. Understanding this distinction is imperative to overcoming a new writer’s most basic concern: "I’m not a writer! I’ve never even written a story!"

And you’re right.

Until you’re writing, you’re not a writer. So the first piece of advice I offer is to ignore the fear and just start writing.  Why? 

Because every single fear you might have about writing is based on your belief that somebody will judge you.

Read that sentence again. Maybe read it several times. Afterwards, challenge yourself to find a single fear you have about writing that does not eventually bring you back to the fear of being judged by others.

Also realize that one simple perspective shift eliminates that fear instantly.  You see, not all stories are meant to be read.  Sometimes writing a story is like a journal and we might write it as our own internal monologue to help us work through issues we’re having or to explore topics we’re curious about. 

"Write for the pleasure of writing. As the pen traces out words on the paper, your anguish disappears and your happiness remains. For this to happen, it is necessary to have the courage to look deep inside yourself." – Paulo Coelho

As long as you write first and foremost for yourself, every single fear disappears instantly.   Understanding the more personal elements of writing enables us to get past fears we might have about being a "good" or "bad" writer.  Only after the story is written does the question arise, "Do I want to share this?"  

Writing stories is an expression of our holistic self connecting both with our self and sometimes others.  It allows those of us who have never considered ourselves to be "story writers" to find great enjoyment and meaning in writing our own stories.

When you put pen to paper (or fingers to keyboard), the worst case is that you throw out the story as most authors do hundreds or thousands of times. The best case is that you write a famous story that impacts the lives of millions of people!  Realistically, however, you will usually write a story that falls between between those extremes.  You'll most often end up with a story that impacts yourself and the lives of those people close to you. 

Writing stories is the ultimate win-win situation because you have nothing to lose and more to gain than you can possibly imagine.
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